Dating after weight loss surgery
I was motivated to not only be a success for myself, but to inspire other people to do hard things. At the beginning, I wanted desperately to be able to glide into Onederland and be under 200 pounds. I hovered between 245 and 255 for the next year, struggling with reactive hypoglycemia, mono, peritonsillar abscesses and some deep mental health struggles.
MBL: What was that first online dating experience like? I was nervous that I would be rejected even though I had posted recent pictures of myself in my profile. I quickly discovered that was not productive behavior and I had to stop doing it. Honestly, I signed up for an online dating profile even when I wasn’t sure I was ready to date. Deep down inside I wondered if those men were the same men who had passed me on the street or sat next me to in an airplane and overlooked me because I was obese. I found myself looking for the hidden meaning behind words or questioning a man’s motives.Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick!Some forums can only be seen by registered members.